Sex is messy

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All of which is to say that if you frequently have messy sex—and good for you if you do! The Liberator Fascinator is the granddaddy of the sex blanket world, and for good reason: This throw blanket is two-sided—one side is made of microfiber, which has a plush, soft feel, and the other side is satin, which is smooth, and cool, and a bit slippery, but in a good way. The whole thing is machine washable, which is obviously a non-negotiable feature in a sex blanket, but the Liberator Throw has another very important feature: Its center is fitted with an absorbent ant specialty lining that soaks up fluids and liquids. Waterproof sheets are not just for bedwetters!

23 Things Nobody Tells Women About Sex

Good Sex is Messy! - Veronica Monet's Shame Free Zone

Between the kissing, the sweating, and the other bodily fluids that make an appearance during outer- or intercourse, sex is an inherently messy process. And the chances of yourself, your partner, and your bed or wherever else you decide to have sex getting anything from stains to watermarks are high. After sex, your first thought might be to immediately hop out of bed to clean things up — especially yourself. Of course, this also depends on what happens during sex, your hygiene preferences, and infection risk.

How to Clean Up After Sex

Sex can be a messy, good time. Unfortunately, we're conditioned to think of our genitals as dirty and the fluids and smells they produce as something to be ashamed of. For most of us, there was a turning point in which our poops, farts, and burps transitioned from cute to disgusting. Along with these acts, the body parts that were associated with them mouths, butts, etc. Unfortunately, sex gets lumped into the list of acts we think of as kind of grody.
Truly ecstatic sex expands our senses and explodes our inhibitions. The best sex asks us to let go of our need for things to look a certain way and to dive into sensation and emotion without fear or judgment. But many women have difficulty experiencing their full capacity for pleasure because they are afraid of how they might look while in the throes of passion. Make no mistake about it, the female body can produce many fluids including ejaculate, menstrual blood and breast milk. To me, these fluids add to the mystery and beauty of the sexual experience.